A  LOVE  LETTER  TO  KENYA

 

 

by

Suzanne North Goodrich

San Diego, California

March 1999

 

“If you visit only two continents in your lifetime,

visit Africa. . .Twice!”

R. Elliot

 

 

This quote says it all.  I left part of my heart and soul in Kenya.  Never before have I been so very sad to leave a place.  The land, the animals, the PEOPLE -- something very special and different from the rest of the world I have been fortunate enough to see.  Saying good-bye to our drivers and tour directors was like leaving beloved family members behind, perhaps never to be seen again.  And the wildlife!  For an animal lover like me, seeing elephants, giraffes, zebras, lions and a mind-boggling number of other animals in their natural habitat was almost too beautiful to bear.  Imagine driving across the savanna and stopping right NEXT to a lion eating a zebra, or huge elephants nursing their young, or watching with an entire den of hyenas as the males came home one by one from every direction after a night of hunting!  Or to slip away along a brush-covered riverbank to get a better picture of a sleeping crocodile, only to be warned when you returned that there could have been a lion in the brush!

 

This is the one experience in my entire life that exceeded my wildest expectations.  I will never be the same.

 

I left San Diego on Thursday, February 25, 1999, on my all-expense-paid House of Lloyd training trip that I had earned with my 1998 sales.  I have earned many trips through the company, but I had no idea that the best one ever was awaiting me 9,700 miles away.  I flew on British Airways direct to London, took a bath and a nap in a dayroom at the lovely Le Meridien Hotel during our eight-hour layover, and arrived in Nairobi Saturday morning.  Three continents in two days, about 30 hours from start to finish!

 

Kenya is a country of 30 million people, representing over 40 tribes, on the far eastern side of Africa.  It is bordered on the south by Tanzania, on the east by Uganda and Lake Victoria, on the north by Sudan and Ethiopia, and on the east by Somalia and the Indian Ocean.  It has a democratic form of government with a constitution providing for freedom of speech, assembly and worship.  Official languages are Swahili and English, so we had no problem communicating (in English, not Swahili!).  Temperatures are in the 70- to 90-degree range year round, rarely going below 55 degrees at night.  Because Kenya is equatorial, there are only two seasons -- dry and rainy.  The people are the real treasure of Kenya.  They are such wonderful, kind people and are disturbed by the violence occurring around them in the bordering countries.  The ones we met were peace-loving and almost all are Christians proud of their faith and trying hard to live up to it.

 

Our first stop was the Safari Park Hotel on the outskirts of Nairobi -- a former British Army officers’ retreat which has become an internationally renowned resort with ostriches and peacocks roaming the beautiful grounds.  Hand-carved four-poster beds with mosquito netting in a spacious room with a marble bathroom looked just like in the movies.  My roommate Laurie and I were too keyed up to sleep, and undoubtedly suffering from jet lag, so spent most of the night talking.

 

Our first two days were spent relaxing and participating in classes related to our business.  Dinner the first night was under the stars and featured numerous waiters offering cuts of meat from skewers of roasted ostrich and eland (my favorites), zebra, giraffe and wild boar (good), crocodile (awful!), hippo and one or two others I didn’t get to sample, along with more familiar beef, pork and chicken.  Dinner the next night was a gourmet affair preceding our annual awards banquet; each course was a work of art and tasted as good as it looked.  We had a surprise visit from a young African Christian choir that sang beautifully both in English and Swahili.

 

Our adventures in Kenya were guided by our tour directors, Dodson and Jason, with Park East Tours.  If you ever get to Kenya, you had better hope these are the men assigned to your group.  They are terrific -- informative, funny, kind and always making sure everything is running smoothly and that everyone has a great time.  Dodson’s greatest wish is that we all go home and become “ambassadors for Kenya.”  I am more than happy to grant his wish.

 

We traveled around in private minibuses with our assigned driver and must have been the envy of those who rode by in city buses.  While we usually had six or seven passengers, each with a window seat, their buses were about the same size but they had 18 or more people in each of theirs -- four rows of four, plus two in the front, and often even more standing up!  (Imagine that in 80 or 90 degree heat!)  Traffic is a sight to behold.  Kenyans drive on the left, just like in England, at amazing speeds and with no apparent plan, seemingly more uncontrolled than any other country I have visited.  They cut in and out and we just closed our eyes and held on!  At least the roads in Nairobi are paved; that wasn’t always the case.  And the potholes!  They are everywhere and are the most impressive I have ever seen.  Drivers from both directions zigzag all over the place trying to avoid the worst of them, gliding in and out as if performing some kin d of crazy car dance, and we passengers bounced up and down nonstop while deep in prayer for our safety.  And those are the normal roads.  On some of our travels, we were warned that part of the trip would be on really bad roads.   “Bad” didn’t describe it; dusty, rocky and deeply rutted, they bore little resemblance to anything we would label a road.  We even occasionally bumped our heads on the roof, and conversation was next to impossible.  What an experience!  (And I wouldn’t trade it for the world.)  The roads take such a toll on our safari vans that they have to be replaced every two or three years!

 

After breakfast on Monday, we flew to our first (and favorite) game reserve -- the Maasai Mara, 700 square miles of wild animals.  Like everything else in Kenya, this flight was a unique experience.  Airport?  What airport?  The Maasai Mara is in southwest Kenya, an extension of the Serengeti Plains, and the airport is merely a landing strip out in the wilderness.  In fact, after we climbed out, we stood there on the grass as the small prop plane taxied around and took off again.  We piled into waiting minibuses and headed for the Mara Serena Lodge.  Now THIS was the Africa I had come to see.  Wonderful little domed huts in the style of a traditional Maasai manyatta (village), with bright yellow and orange decor, on a ridge overlooking the vast savanna where animals could be seen grazing and drinking right below our rooms.  The real safari had begun.

 

That first day brought more than any of us dared hope for.  Our first encounter was right near the lodge, a herd of elephants with babies in tow.  We raced alongside snapping pictures, then pulled into their path so we could get some shots of them coming toward us!  In three short hours we also saw dozens of zebras, wildebeests, warthogs, impala, gazelles, two lionesses walking home from a kill (one still had a blood-stained mouth), a full-maned lion resting in the brush, hyenas, topi, a secretary bird, jackals, vultures, eagles, cape buffalo and a mongoose!  We were almost too excited to eat dinner.  I wrote in my notes:  “Didn’t know whether to laugh or cry, run in circles, pray, yell or what.  Extreme emotions.”  I will never forget that rush of feelings, just about the most intense of my life.

 

In spite of the excitement, we settled down for a great meal.  Kenya has terrific meats, salads, soups and fresh fruit -- not at all what I expected.  Maasai warriors danced after dinner (the real thing, not some Broadway spectacle) and we relaxed under that magnificent starlit sky.  Now began our routine -- wake-up call or knock on the door at 5:45 a.m., tea or coffee in the lodge, in the van at 6:15 and out into the reserve before daylight so we could catch a glimpse of the more nocturnal animals.  Back for a huge breakfast of made-to-order omelets or more exotic fare, varied activities, a great lunch, out for our afternoon game run, back for a delicious dinner, and leisure activities or conversation until bedtime.

 

On our second game run the following morning, we saw many more of the same animals plus a bustard, longclaw, a pride of lions with seven nursing cubs (making adorable kitten noises), a den of hyenas with pups, a lone giraffe, hippos in a pool with a HUGE crocodile (the one mentioned earlier), storks and baboons.  At one point we were literally in the middle of hundreds of zebras, wildebeests and gazelles, grazing all around us with just occasional curiosity about the cameras clicking away.  Surrounded by nature like we have never imagined it.  Zebras in Kenya are as common as cars in the U.S.  In fact, we seldom drove along without several zebras breaking into a quick trot to get out of the road as we zipped along missing them by inches.  On our drive we interrupted a lion stalking a wildebeest that had been separated from the herd.  Our van’s arrival distracted the lion long enough for the wildebeest to get away.  The lion sat and roared somewhat softly for several minutes, I guess in frustration.

 

At the end of that afternoon’s game run, we spotted two cheetahs lounging under a tree.  They didn’t mind a bit when we pulled up and sat watching them.  Suddenly it began to rain -- and African rains can be awesome.  We could see the water immediately building up on the hard, dry dirt.  Our driver became quite nervous about getting stuck and he raced across the savanna toward the lodge.  We made it safely but we saw how quickly it could turn to mud.  Many tourists are not so lucky and end up in the mud trying to free their van.

 

Our safari vans had pop-up tops and I spent most of my time in Kenya on my feet, grinning into the wind and hanging on for dear life as our driver raced over the plains searching for or chasing our prey.  Our driver in the Mara was only too happy to make a beeline wherever we pointed, trails or no trails.  We had four women and three men in our van -- my roommate Laurie, another Laurie from the home office, Debbie and her Hawaiian husband (nicknamed, of course, “Kahuna”), Laurie’s son Bernie and his friend Geoff, both in their mid-20’s, and me.  The men were outstanding spotters and our van quickly became the most successful in searching out the more elusive animals -- cheetah, lions, etc.  Before we left the Mara, we had also seen eland, buzzards, hartebeest, waterbuck, maribou stork and guineafowl.  I know there were others but I didn’t always remember to write them down.

 

Because space is limited when out on safari, each of us had been allowed only one small suitcase or duffel bag and an even smaller carry-on.  This meant most of us left 90% of our things back in Nairobi in storage at the hotel.  This also meant we wore our two or three outfits over and over. . . and over again.  Since we were all in the same situation, it became a non-problem; we just washed out our undies when necessary and overlooked each other’s dirty jeans.  It was actually quite freeing.  We showered at least once a day, so who cared what our clothes looked like!  Next time I go to Kenya though, I sure will pack lighter.  When I think of all the unused clothing and other items I lugged for almost 20,000 miles, it makes me ill.

 

Here, as in most of the hotels outside Nairobi, we were cautioned not to drink the water, not even to brush our teeth.  Bottled water became a constant companion and our driver kept a cooler of it in the van at all times.  Like everything else, it was “hakuna matata” (no problem) once we got used to it.  Actually, there were fewer inconveniences than I had expected.  Nothing seemed too much to bear.  Even the heat was tolerable; we accepted sweat as part of life and just took lots of showers.  (My mother taught me that ladies don’t “sweat,” they perspire.  Sorry, Mom, near the equator it is SWEAT.)  The accommodations were great -- House of Lloyd includes only the best hotels and lodges in their itineraries, the food was always superb, and the experience was the dream of a lifetime.

 

Never a dull moment in a game reserve.  One of my friends, Judi, and her husband had a hut a couple of doors down from ours and were kept awake much of the night because of animal activity.  First a hippo wandered up the hill from a waterhole and walked up to the window of their hut!  Then an amorous, and very noisy, baboon mated with several females right by their front door!  Baboons are quite aggressive and close encounters are to be avoided.  Easier said than done.  They hang around the dining room and will jump through the windows and steal food right off your plate if you aren’t careful!

 

One of my favorite animals in the compound was the rock hyrax.  They are technically rodents, but they are the size of a rabbit and awfully cute.  They must reproduce like rabbits too because they were everywhere, living in the plants and rock walls along the paths.  We were warned not to touch them because they would bite, but they loved to be talked to and would sit at our feet or stretch out precariously from the top of a wall to be closer to us as we talked to them.  As with most other animals we saw, they had lots of tiny babies to show off.  We were lucky to be on safari during “baby season.”

 

That last night in the Mara, Laurie and I had another middle-of-the-night gab session about the company’s COOKIN’ line of kitchenware.  Since it’s new to me, I was plying her with questions so she gave me a mini training.  Soon there was a soft knock on the door.  A neighbor named Cathy not only could hear us talking in the extreme quiet of the African plains but could even hear what we were discussing.  She had gotten dressed and grabbed pen and paper to come take notes!  So she and I sat on my bed like good students while Laurie shared her expertise with us till dawn.  Fun!

 

Our final game run in the Mara was the most exciting -- and bitterly disappointing -- of all.  As soon as we headed out, one of the men spotted a lion crouched behind a shrub, obviously on the hunt.  Grazing nearby was a wildebeest and a herd of zebras.  We parked and waited, hardly daring to breathe, vowing to stay all morning if necessary to see the anticipated chase, something most visitors probably don’t get to see.  One by one, the other vans spotted us and joined the growing crowd.  All of a sudden our driver started up the engine and we left!  One of our group (who shall, in the name of friendship, remain nameless) encouraged him to honor a promise to show another driver where we had found the cheetahs the night before!  The rest of us were furious with the driver but he ignored our pleas to stay.  When we returned a bit later, still angry, we were further distressed because the lion had just caught a zebra and we had missed the chase by only a couple of minutes.  The zebra was dead and was lying on its back with its legs sticking stiffly up in the air.  We pulled up to within a few yards of it and started taking tons of pictures.  If the reader has a weak stomach, it might be advisable to skip the rest of this paragraph because it gets quite gory.  Normally, I get weak in the knees by even a skinned elbow, but I guess this didn’t bother us because it was part of nature.  The lion began on the zebra’s belly, exposing a gray underlayer of skin.  When he finally broke through that, the intestines were readily visible and, with a little help from the lion, eventually fell out onto the ground like a pile of Jell-O.  When he bit into them, a bright green substance spilled out.  What really amazed me was that, once the intestines were out, we could see right into the zebra’s body and it was like a big, empty barrel.  When the lion began chewing on the thighs, we were so close we could actually hear the bones crunch!  Once in a while the lion would turn and look at us, but then go on with his dinner.  Call us sick or perverted if you must, but it was one of the most fascinating things we had ever seen.

 

On our way back to the lodge after the morning game run, our driver suddenly veered off the road onto a rutted path.  He wouldn’t tell us where we were going but hinted it was a special place.  After some really rough going -- and even some places where we thought we’d have to turn back -- we pulled into a clearing and there we joined other surprised friends for breakfast on the Mara River, home to hundreds of hippos!  Tables were set up along the riverbank and all the chefs from the lodge stood there grinning in their white aprons ready to take our orders for omelets!  We dined in the shade of the trees as we watched the hippos at play in the water below.

 

On Wednesday afternoon we flew back to Nairobi and met up with our regular driver, Freddie, to head for our next destination, the world-famous Mount Kenya Safari Club several hours to the north.  It is a gorgeous hotel and is frequented by the international jet set including stars like John Travolta and Michael Jackson.  Richard Gere had just been there a week or so earlier.  My roommate and I shared a two-bedroom cottage with a married couple.  The bedrooms were separated by a large living room beautifully furnished with sofas, chairs, artwork, fireplace and an entire wall of floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking the most beautiful golf course I have ever seen with large, brightly colored native birds walking around.  I would have been content just to live in the bathroom -- it was all blue and white, and basically one huge shower/bath.  Three steps led down into the shower area which was surrounded by railings.  No shower door or curtain was needed since it practically filled the entire room.  Several faucets allowed water to flow in from different directions for a thorough cleansing.  Great place for an orgy if you’re into that sort of thing!  This resort was created by the late actor William Holden and has been rated one of the top hotels in the world by Conde Nast travel magazine.  I won’t argue with that.  Dinner was equally elegant.  Each course was more delectable than the last, ending with dessert arranged on a plate decorated with beautiful chocolate butterflies.  I could get used to this real fast.

 

The hotel actually straddles the equator. When we arrived, we were ushered over to one side of the courtyard walkway for a demonstration.  Our host poured water into a funnel and floated a matchstick.  It swirled in a clockwise direction.  Then we walked over to the other side and did the same thing.  This time the water swirled in the opposite direction.  When he took us to the center of the walkway, the matchstick stayed practically motionless in the water!  I can now say I have been in both hemispheres at the same time!

 

That night was one of the most hilarious times of my life.  I’ll describe the events, but I’m sure you had to be there to properly appreciate the humor.  I had been rooming with Laurie up to this point, but we now switched around.  I briefly met my new roommate, Terry, late that afternoon and didn’t see her again until we met in the room several hours later.  We didn’t have a game run the next day so requested a wake-up call for 6:30 a.m. (this was “sleeping in” by safari standards).  I had a terrible time falling asleep because my bed was broken (even luxury hotels have their problems); I had to brace myself to stay in one place.  When the phone rang, Terry answered it and it was the front desk.  She thanked them for the call, hung up and went on into the bathroom commenting, “Boy, that was a short night!”  I replied, “Yeah, I’m exhausted!”  I had already showered before bed so got up and dressed and packed my suitcase.  The phone rang again and it was someone calling from the U.S. trying to reach the couple sharing our villa.  Terry called the woman into our room and she talked on our phone while Terry and I continued to get ready.  When I finished, I checked my watch to see if I had time to quickly wash my hair.  Yep, it was only 20 till. . .20 till 2:00!!!  1:40 a.m., not 6:40 a.m.!  That first call was NOT a wake-up call; it was the operator trying to put the long-distance call through and Terry just assumed it was the wake-up call and hung up on her!  Well, we fell apart laughing.  There she is trying to get a shower, our neighbor is in our room talking on the phone, I’m all dressed and packed and it’s still the middle of the night!  After we put our PJ’s back on and climbed into our beds, it got funnier and funnier as we recalled our comments about how short the night seemed and as I fought not to roll out of my bed.  We both ended up laughing so hard we cried.  As we finally stifled our giggles and settled back to sleep, there was a knock at the door.  This time it was both of our neighbors, Val and Murray, who came in and plopped down to visit.  You have to understand, these three were friends traveling together but I hadn’t met any of them until that day, yet here we are having a pajama party at 2:30 in the morning -- me in my bed with the blankets pulled modestly up to my chin, Terry in her bed doing the same, Val on the end of my bed, and Murray pulled up in a chair!  What a sight.  Actually, the news turned out to be quite sobering.  That had been their daughter calling from the States to tell them about the massacre of eight tourists in neighboring Uganda and making sure we weren’t involved.  They had then walked up to the lodge to verify the info (no TV’s or newspapers where we were) and then brought the news to us.  After they left, I gave up trying to stay in that lopsided bed and went into the living room and spent the rest of the night on the sofa.  One of the world’s top hotels and there I was sleeping on a sofa without a blanket in a freezing room in a mountain lodge where the fire had died out.  All in all, an evening I won’t soon forget.

 

While my roommate went horseback riding the next morning, Marlene and John, friends from San Diego County, and I walked over to the Stephanie Powers Animal Orphanage.  (For those too young to recall, she was Bill Holden’s long-time “significant other.”  You may remember her in the “Hart to Hart” TV series with Robert Wagner.)  We got up close and personal with an ostrich, a bongo and monkeys, among others.  I had a lot of fun with an adorable little Sykes monkey who hopped on my shoulder several times and liked to hold hands.  When she wanted to free her hands to eat, she would slip her warm little foot into my hand as a substitute!

 

On Thursday, after depleting the merchandise in the souvenir shops at the resort and eating another delicious meal, we piled into our vans and headed north to the Samburu Game Reserve and our next stop -- the Samburu Serena Lodge.  Each lodge has been in a uniquely different setting which surprised me.  When I arrived in Kenya I expected everything to be green and jungle-looking and it wasn’t anything like that.  Nairobi is a dry, dusty, bustling city; the Maasai Mara is hot savanna with miles and miles of dry, brown grass, occasional shrubs and even fewer trees; Mount Kenya, at a much higher altitude, is a paradise of lush green grass, trees and flowers (helped along with a bit of expensive irrigation, I’m sure) and downright cold at night; and now Samburu, another hot but totally different environment.  Here our lodge stretched along the almost-dry Uaso Nyiro River with lots of trees and different types of animals.  We even had a big crocodile we could see holed up on the other side of the riverbed.

 

I missed the excitement of going on game runs as we had done at Maasai Mara so, in spite of how lovely the Mount Kenya Safari Club was, I was glad to get back out to see the animals -- 5:45 wake-up call and all.  Each day we would set our sights on specific animals that we had not yet seen, including leopard, rhino and python, and head for the area where our guide felt they might be.  We finally saw our first leopard at Samburu because they put bait out each night on the other side of the river and we were there when one leaped up to grab the meat hanging from a tree.  But still no rhino.  We had been in Africa almost a week and still hadn’t spotted the last of the “Big Five” (elephant, lion, buffalo, leopard and rhino).  But we saw a lot of other kinds.  To our already long list, we added gerenuk (a giraffe-necked deer that stands on its hind legs to eat from the trees), reticulated giraffes which have different markings from the Maasai giraffes we had seen elsewhere), the rare kudu, oryx, and the Grevy’s zebra (which has stripes in a pattern different from that of the common zebra).  It is thrilling beyond words to be able to see these wonderful creatures up close from the safety of our van.  I also got a kick out of the numerous vultures that sat around for hours in almost leafless trees along the riverbank as if stupidly pondering what to do that day.  Samburu was very nice but the animals are shyer and therefore harder to spot so it wasn’t quite as exciting as the Maasai Mara.  However, this encouraged us to be more resourceful and we learned how to follow animal tracks and droppings and spent much of one morning on the trail of a meandering lion.

 

Friday morning we saw a huge herd of elephants with several babies, one seemingly a newborn.  One elephant was lying on the ground and another had it pinned with its foot, but Freddie assured us this was how they play.

 

That afternoon we visited a Samburu village.  On the way there we happened upon two giraffes fighting in a riverbed.  Freddie explained that they were trying to break each other’s neck and would fight to the death, perhaps not that day or even that week, but each time they met until one of them was the victor.  Such gentle-looking animals with such a lethal goal!  We watched them for a while, marveling at how this death dance was so graceful.  It was fascinating to see how the smaller one stayed so close to the “bully” instead of running away.  We were told that by keeping little space between them, the smaller one is able to prevent his opponent from kicking him!

 

The Samburu village was a real eye-opener.  Small grass huts with dirt floors and sealed with cow dung to keep out the weather.  Small and windowless, the one I was invited into was divided into FOUR areas!  Entry (living room?), parents’ sleeping quarters, children’s bedroom, and kitchen (probably no more than three feet wide by three feet deep).  The beds were cowhides spread on the floor, and no furniture at all.  From what I gathered, nine people shared that small home!  Their village consists of a number of similar huts surrounded by thorn bushes and barbed wire to keep out the lions.  They get all their water from a nearby river which is also where they bathe.  It was a humbling experience.  I believe it has had a permanent impact on my life; I have a great desire to simplify things now, not a bad thing to do.

 

The Maasai and Samburu tribes are essentially the same people who live in different areas, Maasai in the south and Samburu in the north.  Since they believe their god gave them all the cattle of the earth (even those in the U.S.), cattle are “taken back” from other tribes in the area.  I don’t know if this creates a great deal of strife or not.

 

Most of the members of these tribes have two of their lower teeth removed.  This custom came about so they can be fed food and medicine if they get tetanus (lockjaw).

 

Males are circumcised at age 14-17 without anesthesia, using the same knife for all.  If a man cries out in pain, it brings shame to his family.  The circumcision marks his transformation from boy to warrior and he will remain single until age 30 while he is taught the ways of a man/warrior.  His diet during this phase will include a drink made of blood and milk, intended to make him strong.

 

Most tribes allow men to have several wives; the more they have, the richer and more respected they appear.  When a man marries, he is expected to provide his bride’s family with an agreed-upon number of cows.  If the man is unable to pay in full, when his own daughters later marry, he can take the cows received from that union and turn them over to his wife’s family to be applied toward his debt.

 

A fact of Kenyan life that intrigues me resulted from a question asked of Jason, one of the guides, regarding how Kenyans dispose of trash.  He said they don’t have trash; they use and recycle everything.  We should be so smart.

 

On one of our game runs, we came across two lions walking down the middle of the road.  We pulled up right alongside them and got some great pictures.  Geoff, who was sitting up front with Freddie, was so close he could have touched them.  He was wide-eyed the rest of the day and kept saying, “Freddie, they were this close!  This close, Freddie!”

 

Another time we encountered a large herd of impala.  We sat for a long time watching as each one leaped high across the road and disappeared into the brush.  We had a similar experience with an entire colony of baboons.  One big fellow sat in the middle of the road with his back to us as he waited for the others to cross one by one.

 

I will always remember the Samburu lodge as the place where I was introduced to banana soup.  The chef had to convince me to try it and it was so good that I had a second bowl in spite of the fact that it was high noon on a hot day near the equator.  From then on, I made it a point to try various unusual soups and was never disappointed.

 

Each time we traveled between reserves, we stopped to browse whenever possible at little roadside souvenir shops where we learned to bargain and barter with the best of them.  Some traded T-shirts and bandanas for necklaces and carved giraffes.  The rest of us struggled to mentally convert shillings to dollars to determine if we were getting a good deal.  Sometimes we didn’t even need to leave the van to shop.  Dare to stop in certain areas and vendors swarmed to our van pushing all sorts of merchandise through the windows with frantic negotiations back and forth until our driver eased away.  That was the moment of truth; either we got our souvenir at a rock-bottom price or we lost out to a savvy vendor.  At first I hated it, but then it began to be fun once we knew how the system worked and learned to be firm.

 

On Saturday afternoon, Freddie loaded us up and took us to our final game reserve – Sweetwaters Tented Camp, with a fantastic view of snow-capped Mount Kenya.  We all loved this place a lot.  It is a permanent (not mobile) group of luxury tents, some on stilts (including ours), with thatched roofs and private verandas that look out onto a floodlit waterhole in the middle of the reserve.  The tents are quite spacious and each has a very large adjoining bathroom with all the modern conveniences.  You just zip yourself in and out of the bathroom.  The only thing separating us from the animals was a shallow trench circling the compound with a two-foot electric fence that didn’t quite reach the top of the trench!  I guess it works but sometimes animals do come into the fenced area.  I heard a lion roar twice the first night and it sounded like it came from right next to our tent.  I went out to investigate, not yet aware of how low the fence was and that he could have jumped over to our side!  I still don’t know how close he was.  Apparently he wasn’t hungry enough to go after me.

 

Dinner that night was the usual festive affair but with an emotional ending.  My friend Judi (she of wandering hippo and amorous baboon fame), was celebrating her birthday and we had been stretching it out all day by singing to her every hour.  After dinner, every available staff member came into the dining room, led by waiters carrying torches and a birthday cake, singing a song we had all come to love – “Jambo Bwana.”  They danced through the dining room and we all joined the line and sang along as best we could in Swahili.  Judi was in tears and most of us were too; it was a really beautiful moment – these wonderful, sweet Kenyans that we had all grown to love joining hands and voices with us to honor Judi.  I have never met a group of people as warm, kind and friendly as the people of Kenya; they are wonderful!  I bet Judi never forgets that celebration.

 

As I wandered back to my tent, I saw some zebras near the waterhole so stopped for a while.  Sure enough, they gradually and nervously came up to drink.  Only a few yards and a two-foot fence separated us in that dark, quiet night.  It was another cherished moment in Kenya.

 

On Sunday we visited a nearby chimpanzee rehabilitation center opened in support of the Jane Goodall Institute.  Back at the lodge, as part of a local school project, we each helped plant a tree (now I have an excuse to go back so I can check on my tree) and also visited Morani, a rhino that was orphaned and has been raised at the camp.  We didn’t count him as part of the Big Five though; we still wanted to see one in the wild.  They have been killed by poachers almost to extinction so are not easy to spot, but we hoped to see at least ONE of the 20 or so that were rumored to be in this particular reserve.  We went on our afternoon game run but still had no success in finding the elusive rhino.

 

This was our last night on safari and we were treated to a bush dinner.  Freddie took us out into the reserve where the hotel staff had set up tables covered in white linen with complete formal table settings and a huge buffet.  Armed guards kept watch and fires burned to keep the animals away as we dined in style with the brightest stars shining in the biggest sky you have ever seen.  You just cannot imagine what it was like if you haven’t been there.  Since it was Sunday, we had a brief non-denominational worship service and anybody who wanted to share his thoughts was invited to do so.  The big, quiet “Kahuna” from our van surprised us all by offering an emotional commentary on the time we had spent in Africa and then sang “Amazing Grace.”  He has a beautiful voice and it was a perfect ending to a perfect day in a perfect setting.

 

The next morning was our very last game run.  We headed out of the compound and right away spotted our rhino!  At last!  Big, shy and ugly – there he was off in the bush.  We barely had time to snap a couple of pictures before he disappeared.  We drove around trying to find him again but never did.  On the way back to the lodge, we found another even bigger one!  No rhinos for almost two weeks and now two in one morning!  We got some great shots of this one as it grazed, then ran away as Freddie raced the van alongside it in reverse, then more exciting shots as it ran across the road right behind us into the brush on the other side.  The best part of it all was the HUGE smile on the Kahuna’s face as he sat back in his seat with the most contented look I have ever seen.

 

I never did see a python but that was about the only thing we missed.  A real surprise was that we didn’t see a lot of spiders, bugs and snakes.  I had been really nervous about that but in the entire two weeks, I saw only a few flies, one small spider, a mosquito or two and heard about a couple who found a snake in their room.  (Glad it wasn’t mine!)

 

The rest of the morning was a very sad one for most of us.  It suddenly dawned on us that this dream was about to end.  I have visited many countries with House of Lloyd and on my own, but I have never been so caught up in a culture as I was there in Kenya.  It is almost a spiritual thing; even now, I feel I am being called to something and I don’t know what it is.

 

Freddie gathered us up with our luggage and we left Sweetwaters very reluctantly.  However, we still had a few surprises left.  We stopped at a large public school on the way back to Nairobi, in a town called Karatina, to distribute books and pens we had brought with us to Kenya.  The schools are very poor and these are very scarce commodities so we had looked forward to donating them, but we had not expected the reception we got.  We were greeted as if we were movie stars!  My traveling companions from San Diego, Dottie and Roger, and I were invited into a classroom of seven-year-olds.  The school has about 1500 children from kindergarten through eighth grade, and there were 55 children in the room we visited!  While Dottie and Roger spoke with the teacher, I sat down with some of the children (all of whom seemed to speak flawless English) and began asking questions.  Mostly I got giggles and shy smiles.  They were too awestruck to speak.  Finally, one by one, they began to offer schoolwork for my review and I read over each paper very carefully, noting the child’s name and matching that name up with a face shining with pride.  The grades were terrific and they were pleased that I commented on each one and they began to loosen up.  First one offered his/her hand with the greeting “Jambo” (hello), then another, then another. . .until I was besieged with little hands reaching out to hold or shake mine.  Eventually, the three of us moved on outside with the teacher to join the others while the children in the various classrooms waved or reached through the windows to shake hands as we passed.  When the lunch bell sounded, they raced to our sides and that’s when I knew how Julia Roberts, Tom Cruise and Harrison Ford feel.  Every child in the school gathered around us in clusters to talk, gawk or stroke our arms and hands.  They were fascinated with our color (or lack of it?); I’m sure they had seen white skin before but perhaps not within touching distance and they were so sweet that we were only too happy to oblige their curiosity.  They vied to take turns gently rubbing my arm while a teacher and I talked with them about the differences in our skin and our countries.  It was a social and geographical lesson I will always treasure above all others.  My growing entourage and I sang a couple of songs together, as did many of the other clusters of “movie stars” and their groups of admirers.  When the visit was over, the children refused to let us go and hung on for dear life; we were barely able to pry ourselves free to get in the vans.  Maybe that’s what is calling me back.  Education is one of the greatest needs in Africa and those adorable children are so hungry to learn.  I always wanted to be a teacher but unavoidable events in my life turned me in a different direction.  I wish I were years younger and knew where to start.

 

Finally, regrettably, we arrived back at the Safari Park Hotel in Nairobi to collect the luggage we had left there in storage and prepare for the long trip home.  I had purchased so many souvenirs that I was seriously concerned about getting it all home since the baggage limitations are quite strict.  One of the House of Lloyd staff members who had intelligently brought only one suitcase offered to check an extra bag or box through for me and have the home office ship it to me when it arrived in the States.  I finally avoided that inconvenience by leaving some unneeded items behind and “sharing” my excess carry-ons with my fellow travelers.  One problem was the spears I had purchased.  Ranging from three to seven feet long, these authentic souvenirs were my pride and joy.  A Samburu warrior had taken them apart and tied them into a bundle, but I was fairly certain I would have trouble getting them on the plane.  The airlines did accept them as a checked item without charging me extra, but they created a tiny bit of a stir when we arrived in the U.S. and had to go through customs before getting back on the plane to come home.  I had to personally appear and identify them from a special “security” carousel – where I was greeted with, “Oh, you’re the one with the spears” (they had obviously x-rayed the package carefully) – and then the security person had to carry them and escort me to the desk so I could recheck them back on board.  I guess they were afraid I could use them to hijack the plane.  (Actually, I’m glad they are so careful, but it makes for a good story.)

 

That night we had our farewell gala at the hotel with yet another splendid dinner served under the stars.  We performed skits spoofing some of our more unusual African adventures and then were entertained by 10 or 12 VERY athletic Africans who performed the most startling acrobatics I have ever seen.  It was a stunning show and I didn’t want it or the evening to end.  One of my new friends, Denise, felt the same way and we stayed to the bitter end.  We group-danced to some great African music with several others including Sara from the home office and Dodson, our tour director.  Even our company’s V.P. came out and joined us for the longest song the band had played all night.  I was ready to drop by the time it ended but I wouldn’t have quit for the world.  Denise and I finally headed for our rooms singing the “Jambo” song all the way.

 

Tuesday morning was a confusion of packing, farewells, and a trip to nearby Giraffe Manor where we were able to actually feed the giraffes by hand.  Some went so far as to put a food pellet between their lips and the giraffe’s 18-inch-long tongue would come zooming out to grab it (euwwww).  I may be passionate about animals but I drew the line there; my hand was slimy enough.  We then were served a catered lunch under tents set up on the grounds and were entertained by another great group of African dancers.  Boy, I love that music!  On the way back to the hotel, we stopped at the Kizuri bead factory where we watched beautiful beads being made by hand and purchased several of their necklaces, of course.

 

Since our plane didn’t leave for London till 11:00 p.m., we spent the rest of the day saying goodbye to each other and to our African surroundings.  I had taken some T-shirts to Kenya to use for bartering in the villages but hadn’t had room in my one suitcase to carry them on safari.  I sure didn’t want to carry them home again so I wandered over to the hotel shops to see if anyone there would trade.  I walked into a leather shop where I had earlier purchased a pair of sandals and asked the girl if she would consider a trade.  She said yes and, to my surprise, asked how many pairs I wanted!  I had been expecting ONE, so I hesitantly said three and she okayed it so quickly that I knew I had underbid.  Oh well, I still came out ahead, especially when I sold two of those pairs to friends back in the hotel lobby!  The lessons I had learned from the souvenir vendors had served me well.  I’ll need all the financial help I can get to develop all the pictures I took – over 600 of them!

 

The scene that evening at the airport in Nairobi was a wrenching one.  We hated to say Kwaheri (goodbye) to our wonderful Freddie.  The Kahuna waltzed him across the sidewalk in a huge bearhug and then the rest of us said our farewells to this very special man who had become our close friend during the many hours and adventures we had shared together.  The dream we had been living was over and we had to fly back to the real world of work, bills, problems and rushing from one project to another.  It was one of the saddest moments of my life.

 

Kwaheri, Freddie.  Kwaheri, Dodson and Jason.  Kwaheri, Kenya.  I will return!

 

                                                      Suzanne North Goodrich

                                                      San Diego, California

                                                      March 1999

 

On March 24, 1999, one week after I finished this journal, Jason was one of 32 people killed in a train wreck on his way from Nairobi to Mombasa to see his family.

 

 

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